The T-max in the OP link appears to be a big (250a) dumb solenoid with a computer brain added to control the solenoid.
Same with the BlueSea, but the smaller BlueSea is rated at 120a. BlueSea does make a larger one rated at 500a.
Both the smaller BlueSea and the T-max have override switches. The battery monitor is standard with the T-max, and optional with the BlueSea.
I can't seem to find a manual online for the T-max, so I don't know how it's programmed.
One of the main advantages of the BlueSea units, is that they are "dual sensing", which means that when they sense an elevated "charging voltage" on either side of the solenoid, they will energize the solenoid to tie the batteries so both get charged.
That can be disabled with the override switch to charge batteries separately if needed. If voltage falls too far the batteries are automatically disconnected. That can also be disabled by using the override switch to "force on", for instance while winching.
I doubt the T-max has the same programming as the BlueSea - it's probably simpler. But the T-max kit appears to include a few other bits.
I would go with a Samlex ACR-160, and some fat wire of my own choosing. At least #4. The Samlex is dual sensing, with the option to add your own override switch (not included), and LED indicator light (also not included).
But, for those who just want something simple amd easy to install that will charge a second battery with the engine running, the T-max kit will work.