The key is balance.
"Live for today" has become the motto of the baby boomers, and we have saddled our offspring for generations to come with $16 TRILLION in debt. Shameful. . .
As we live for today, we are spending our kids livelihood.
Don't ever condemn someone for taking a financial choice that they consider prudent or risky - as long as they are not risky with someone else's dollars!
That balance is a very personal choice.
Having said that, I just took delivery of a brand new Sportsmobile last week, and am thrilled as can be. (Paid in full, no borrowed funds).
"Live for today" has become the motto of the baby boomers, and we have saddled our offspring for generations to come with $16 TRILLION in debt. Shameful. . .
As we live for today, we are spending our kids livelihood.
Don't ever condemn someone for taking a financial choice that they consider prudent or risky - as long as they are not risky with someone else's dollars!
That balance is a very personal choice.
Having said that, I just took delivery of a brand new Sportsmobile last week, and am thrilled as can be. (Paid in full, no borrowed funds).
Edit:
Sorry, i forget how thin skinned folks are
and the easy mis-interpretation of what is written
Disclaimer:
I am NOT advocating new, used, smb, ford, chev, slide in
trailers or what ever
The point i am trying to get across is
waiting to save a few bucks or keeping the comfort level lower
by having a older or more cost effective rig, may NOT be worth it in the long haul.....
I have a TON of clients that scrimped and saved
only to lose the spouse unexpectedly, or lose their health
so they could not travel or IMHO the worst: Leave it to thier
fully ungratefull kids that spend in a week what mom and dad saved over
40 years......
Story:
I am a Estate Planner by trade
I have to crunch numbers for solutions for my clients on a daily basis
The Math is The Math
... however it must be tempered with numbers that dont work......
example:
$50,000 kitchen remodel because the wife wants one
$20,000 cruise with kids and grandkids
NOT cost effective whatsoever
That said and done, i have a picture of the above wife
sitting in her kitchen with a Sxxt eating grin sipping a cuppa coffee
Given to me by her husband....after she died...
She only got 4 months outta the kitchen
He has NEVER regretted the cost.....
I have another picture of a fat, white, beached whale
in a cruise ship pool with his kids and grandkids and a umbrella drink
The same Sxxt eating grin on his face
...he didnt make it 4 months
The widow thanks me everytime we talk for getting them on the cruise
None of the above had any prior health problems
None of the above where that old.....
Another Case:
I just got around to sorting out my wifes and mine
digital pictures
(4 years worth, first wife, new marriage)
The first trip we took was to Sample Meadows meeting another
group of SMB'ers
First trip = Highest Cost of Ownership
... IMHO, the experiance and memories justify
the entire cost.
Add in two more years of once in a lifetime trips
and IMHO the cost of ownership is Zero
Ask yourself, what is a killer week or 10 days with wife worth
if it is the Last Trip you will make......
I know, i know, i hear this all the time as an Estate Planner
we are young
we are healthy
we cant afford it
we have kids in school
ALL these are a non issue if you cant make the trip
Just my Two Satang
bw