With four little kids in the mix, I'd sell the truck and use the money on some couple counciling and see if things can be worked out. Even if things are not perfect, it is better for the kids. Plans can always be put on hold, but families can't. That's just my two cents worth.
coming from an ALMOST broken marriage...(she had signed the papers and I was on my way to courthouse).....try and save it...
2 years ago I realized I spent too much time in the garage and not enough in the house with her and my daughter...
since then I got rid of..
welder
plasma cutter
paid-for-house I built
rock crawler
atv
BIG *** CHIP on my shoulder
this year we bought.....
new house that we BOTH liked..
new cars all the way around (she haddnt had a new one..and we can afford what she got)
started building the van into a FAMILY camper not just a towrig for the rock crawler and atv...
new FAMILY project car...everybody gets to put their own ideas into it..1959 ford farilane galaxy 500 (multi-winter project...she HAD to give me something to do otherwise I would go stir-crazy!)
OH..and
2 new carseats
double stroller..
double EVERYTHING for our newborn twins...:Wow1:
and lemme tell ya man...Ive NEVER been happier in a relationship..we talk..we make sure we are both understood and we both respect eachother...its tough...I wanna go work in my garage every night...but I dont...cuz the rust will sand off...the lonelyness of a spouse just grows...