well, well, that's not that easy to answer...
first off, yes i miss the states a LOT! i miss the weather, the people, the land.
if i leave munich it's about two minutes until i hit another little town or village. i absolutely miss the space, the desert and its quietness, etc.
i had the perfect job, made good money, lived comfortably...
the stress level of live (not only work) is much higher in the US, though.
you gotta drive everywhere, etc.
that's better in europe. family is closer. italy is closer
. in munich i can go ww kayaking after work in the river that passes through town
there is more differentiation between different cultures in a smaller area - this is cool and this is what this thread is about. but you also cannot get out of it unless you drive for a long time.
but making a living is harder. i make half the money and life costs twice as much...
if i were single i would go back to the states....
when we left we had to make a decision, because our visas were running out. next step would have been the green card. cost back then: about 3 grand. 3 year wait for an approval (hopefully) and we would have needed another permit to be able to work in the meantime...
so we went back to europe.
spain was more because of the weather and country but it didn't pan out.
munich seemed like the next best thing.
we've been here for 2 years - we'll see.
but one thing is for sure: winters are extremely hard on me...
i hate the cold, i hate short days - in combination it is depressing...
hope that clears up things