DaveInDenver
Middle Income Semi-Redneck
Of course cutting a notch into a ball or shackle will hasten its failure. That's aside the point. Still, people abuse trailer balls all the time, backing into stuff, letting them rust, shocking them on potholes, under or over torquing the nuts, welding them to draw bars. It wouldn't be any different for someone leaving his bow shackles hanging on the bumper 24/7/365, banging around, wearing grooves in the pins or coated with road salt. The WLL limits on anything are only good as long as there's no damage. Soft rigging doesn't absolve this need to take care of your junk, still have to watch for elongation, abrasion, cuts.
Your example of the shock going over a bump is exactly the point of not using a ball. You were probably using a larger ball with a 1" or 1-1/4" shank. So your weak point apparently was the hitch pin in double shear. A light duty 1-7/8" ball with a 5/8" or 3/4" shank put in some combination of tension and single shear is giving it all possible options to fail when shocked like that.
Your example of the shock going over a bump is exactly the point of not using a ball. You were probably using a larger ball with a 1" or 1-1/4" shank. So your weak point apparently was the hitch pin in double shear. A light duty 1-7/8" ball with a 5/8" or 3/4" shank put in some combination of tension and single shear is giving it all possible options to fail when shocked like that.