Given the references to my work, I guess I should update my situation.....
I have recently completely cured both my engine cooling and tranny cooling issues. First, I removed the 7 blade Mopar fan and fan clutch and went back to the stock 5 blade fan with a Hayden HD fan clutch. That took care of the engine and it made me comfortable to get rid of my framerail billet style tranny cooler and go to a small stacked plate cooler mounted on the V-support inside the grill. This is mounted in series with the fan driven cooler located under the tub behind the driver opposite of where the stock muffler would sit. With this modification, I have yet to breach 225* in engine temps while towing (with the AC engaged) as well as 200* in tranny temps. My temp guage is connected to my cooler output line on a t just before it returns to the pan. That was the best I coud do without serious surgery on my existing plumbing.
My advice would be to take your tranny cooler out of the radiator and then run separate 2 coolers in series such as I did above. The fan driven cooler is thermostatically controlled so it only operates if temps exceed 180*.
As far as my previous engine issues go.... I beleve the 7 blade fan was not being driven correctly and actually added to my problem by not spinning at the correct speed. The 5 blade fan and heavy duty clutch took care of that and once engine temps dropped, it made my situation with the tranny easier to deal with so if I were you, I would not automatically discount getting a stacked plate cooler behind your grill... unless you have something else planned for that space. In that case, FYI... I also have a power steering cooler behind my grill so there is space.
Thanks for the link.. Think I went over that a few months ago while starting to formulate my plan.
He seems to have a pretty persistent issue just driving the Jeep around. My Jeep 99% of the time and even towing on relatively flat ground it does just fine. It just tends to have issues dragging the trailer up the sierras.