STREGA
Explorer
Go to the blue room and check out the member builds section. You can get many ideas for your fj. Many purpose built rigs there.
If I was to do it again, I would probably opt for lighter components myself.
Aluminum skids, although not as strong as steel, really cuts down on weight.
The simpler the setup, the easier to maintain.
I highly recommend icon suspension setup but save your money and buy different UCAs and LCAs.
Demello makes great sliders and bumpers.
X2, I will also be lifting my FJ and originally wanted to do the Old Man Emu, but after looking into lift kits the Icon has become the one I like the most although they are alot of $$$. OME will get the job done at a reasonable cost. Changing out the UCA's is critical in getting the geometry correct after the lift, biggest complaint you see is poor handling/alignment issues after a lift kit is installed.
I have also installed a aluminum front bumper and skid plates, I live in a place where deer are everywhere and wanted more front end protection than the plastic bumper could provide, the weight differance is only a 8 lb gain with a grill guard that the stock didn't have. The weight I saved on the bumper will be spent on a winch. The skid plates are almost half the weight of steel, since I won't be doing hard core rock crawling I feel they are up to the task.
Simple is good on a Overland rig.