Thanks for the suggestions everyone. I was attempting to solder RG58 coax to a PL 259 with adapter. I have plenty of iron as suggested, large tip probable 175-200watt range.
I filed and recoated the tip before begining. I should have quit a good enough. At the end I lost some of the solder and it got on the outside threads of the connector. Without a solder remover I attempted to heat and tap the excess solder off. Ended up melting the coax insulation going into the adapter/connector. I was trying to use a vise grips as a heat sink which may have made it more difficult.
I think my major mistake was using incorrect solder/ no flux. I was using Rosen Core.
Pretining would help.
I did not scotch brite any surfaces.
I read some information on some ham sites before attempting and followed the Larson instructions in the NMO mount.
I look at the videos provided and try again.
Thanks again for all of the help.
73 Dan