I have to agree with Street Wolf here (Not for the purpose of ganging up on anyone mind you), But I've run a wide variety of bulbs in the different cars and trucks that I've had. HID is the best upgrade. The initial expense is worth it, as bulb life is much better with HID. I've even switched to HID for my off-road lights as well. And yes, if installed correctly (like adjusting the angle of your beams for starters) you won't blind everyone.
If you don't want the expense of HID lighting, I've found the best balance of great light and longevity to be the Sylvania Silverstar Ultra bulbs. They don't burn out as quickly as a Nokya bulb because they're not a super high watt bulb.
http://www.danielsternlighting.com/tech/lights/light_color/light_color.html
All anecdotal evidence aside, it doesn't change the fact that retrofitting an HID bulb into a reflector designed for a halogen bulb and running it on the street is illegal everywhere in the United States. Nor does it change the fact that Sylvania Silverstar bulbs look brighter because they are filtering out a significant amount of long wavelength light (yellows and oranges) while keeping the short wavelengths (blues); humans have trouble focusing on the short wavelengths of light, it messes with our pupil responses, and it disorients us. Those blue tinted bulbs are illegal in most of the rest of the world for good reason.
Google
Rayleigh scattering and see what I mean.
If you post something on this forum like, "a Jeep Compass is the most capable overland vehicle ever created, airing-down tires does not improve traction, & there is never any reason to own a winch," you'd be universally laughed at. Right?
Same thing about this light discussion. On a forum where people know the topic well, there is no argument about the blue-tinted bulbs or improperly executed HID conversions.
Try
Candlepower Forum for a little while. Just browse it a tiny bit.
I'm not trying to belittle anybody, act superior, or needlessly badmouth any products. I was a Silverstar victim years ago too.