Dear MAG00,
I apologize for this group getting so far off track, leading to you losing interest in your own thread. Let's get back to basics:
-Overlanders with any experience will tell you to start with what you have, and spend your first dollars getting out there enough times to find out if whatever you picture as overlanding is really for you(and more importantly your family, as you will go far more often if they are on board with it) before you invest too much time and money.
-Don't buy a brand new vehicle unless you have money that is truly disposable(and in that case, I'll send you routing and account numbers to help you release some of that burden). Brand new vehicles depreciate like a rock when you only drive them to the mall...imagine how much more depreciation with the "custom pinstriping" and sometimes "metal texturing" that comes from traveling to the best places. But buy for example a $15k Landcruiser and 10 years from now it's still worth $15k
-If you later decide to buy a used 4x4, choose based on what you will actually do with it. I know Texas has shockingly limited public lands, meaning you will want to come up to UT/CO/WY/MT etc. Highway comfort on the way will be important. If you're 25 your jeep will be fine...if you're 45 less so. Don't buy a 21ft long pickup with a 13ft wheelbase(real numbers from trucks suggested on this thread), unless you want to put a big camper in the bed and stay on roads without switchbacks, trees, gulleys, or big rocks. But if that is your plan, a big truck will be fine.
More likely you would do best to start with something like this: 2003-2008 Lexus GX470 with over 100k miles(expect 350-400k from the drivetrain); take off the running boards,then ADD a roof rack, 33" tires, "instant pop-up peepee teepee with a Luggable Loo and kitty litter", and a nice strong, easy-to-put-up tent(remember you aren't staying in one spot all week)...that will take you 90-95% of anywhere you want to go...then after some trips you'll know what you will want/need, both for more comfort/family happiness, and that last 5-10% of capability IF you think you want/need it.
-In summary, the people with the most experience overlanding both in the US and around the world will say to spend a modest amount of money(essentials) on your rig and equipment, and a generous amount of money on fuel, food, and time off, so you can GO GO GO
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