I think this is an interesting perspective. Much of the off-highway track in the US is not often traveled. I could wait for weeks on many roads we take.
Another cultural thing is (and this is just my observation) that non-US folks have a much more lenient work/vacation schedule. I quite literally cannot afford to miss a day of work. With very few granted vacation days as is common here, my job, house, and livelihood are in jeopardy if I have to wait even a day+ to get back to work. If this happens at the beginning of a vacation week great, but what if it happens on the way back to the highway to go home? I think we "need" recovery gear because we need recovery NOW, not tomorrow lest we incur those job ramifications.
That was my point Scott. The off highway stuff you guys do is remote and as you so rightly pointed out, you go on weekends, short holidays and cannot afford to not be back on the road again.
Im not saying a winch does not have its place. We have one fitted for here in the UK because we travel alone offroad and the routes can be pretty rough. Sure help is only <10miles away, but when you only have 2 days off a week your time is precious!
I dont agree its a cultural thing, you have to remember that the UK is closer to the US than Europe in that respect. I think most European overland travellers travel (not weekends/1 week wheeling) so they leave work for weeks/months at a time. They are not on a strict schedule and as my previous post do not require a winch due to sticking to well travelled routes. Our Morocco trip took all my time off work (4 Weeks) and we left the next day after finishing and was back in the next day after returning. It was tight, but its the only way to do it and Im lucky my boss allows me to take 4 weeks at a time. (mostly because work is quiet in the last 4 years!).
You guys are also lucky to have so much more land which is free to roam. Europs is crowded and as pointed out there are limited 'off-road' options on the continent. There are very few legal spots in France/Spain/Italy, Germany is a no go so that leaves Eastern Europe which is a couple of days trek for most Europeans and with Diesel at nearly £1.50/Litre its not a travel prospect to take lightly. You would want to spend a few weeks down there.
Regarding Winches as factory option, they are not trying to help you, they are a business, they are there to make money. If they can sell you all the accessories that you may/my not need then its better for them.
Regarding tyres, you need to be fairly sensible with tyre approach and the country you are travelling. Find out what sizes can be had locally etc etc. There is no point turning up to do a trans-africa trip with 35" tyres.
It all comes back to the distinction between people who offroad/wheeling/greenlane and those who travel overland crossing international borders. Problems lie when you do both kinds, like us! We will likely leave the winch on for our Siberia trip next year but Im not sure I need to take the pull pal. hmmm...
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