Thanks for the kind words!
Taking a trip like this with children is both very gratifying and terribly exhausting.
I can do a decent job of keeping myself happy without expending a whole lot of effort, pretty much just doing what I want to do when I want to do it. I find I'm very easy to live with, from my perspective of course.
The trick, as anybody with a personal relationship with any other human being can attest, is to find those compromises that come easily and don't really require any terrible sacrifice on anyones' part.
Throw more people into that equation and the success rate plummets dramatically most of the time.
Start mixing genders and ages and things fall apart in rather impressive fashion and usually at great speed.
Our challenges were:
Me - wants to drive Jeep all day on trails, hike trails, climb rocks, flirt with Tracy
Tracy - wants to ride horses, hike trails, climb rocks, eat, enjoy meaningful family time
Sarah - wants to read books, listen to music, climb rocks, ride horses, eat, hike trails
Colin - wants to drive Jeep all day on trails, eat, climb rocks, flirt with girls, listen to music, hike on trails, ride horses, annoy Sarah
As you can see, I don't put a premium on regular meals, although everyone else does. Colin (almost 12 years old) wants to drive the Jeep AND wants to jump off the North Rim at Toroweep (all of this while eating - he's a growing boy). Many of our interests appear to overlap nicely. Some do, but often the timing doesn't. Add a quart of teen angst and a liter of pre-teen angst and make those two sit within arms' reach of each other and sometimes it all just pretty much goes straight to hell.. quickly.. And then one of us blinks (or an antelope crosses the road) and everybody is in the moment and we're making memories of a lifetime.. Just like *that* it changed, and at some unexpected point will change again to something completely unexpected (or not, which is another way they mess with your head, but I digress..).
It's a great trip to take, and I highly recommend it. It will be wonderful and the best trip you'll ever take. It will be awful and you'll never want to do it again. It will be over at some point, and then you can start remembering the good and forgetting about the bad. It can't help but enrich their lives to experience the world in this manner with people who will take the time to share stories about what went before, why it is the way it is now and what might come of it all in the future.
We've been home for a couple of weeks now, and it is difficult for me to accept that that particular adventure has too-quickly passed..
John