tdesanto
Expedition Leader
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This sounds like the best option.
...just don't post...
I don't see this ending up well. No offence to the OP but he is all over the place mentally and this whole thing just seems poorly thought out. The vehicle doesn't seem fit to take a cross town trip in much less cross country. It's inevitably going to die on this trip and he has no ability or money to fix it.
I had planned this trip to be a soul searching adventure and a means to acquire useful skills.
Phil's mind is sound, in fact he has a great mentality. Sometimes the mind has to be all over the place to find an answer.
We are fortunate to have a tight group that is willing to share adventures and emotions. Some passerby's might get freaked out or pass judgement, but most of us try to use our emotions and past adventures to help the next.
Its usually the consensus that most people are held back by fear and the possibility of failure. Those that have overcome the fear have tasted a new fruit and want to share it with others.
I agree that your logic is sound from inside the box, but adventures occur outside the box and a different logic applies.
Stay tuned to witness crazy thoughts turn into magic, and your own logic turn into a crazy thought.
Everyone can think what they want...<snip>...and I stand by my decision. <snip>
I said I would leave it at that but I won't.
This isn't a deal where there's a possibility of failure. The guy has no money and a truck thats on it's last leg that he's trying to drive/pull/push accross country. At some point a failure is going to occur and he's going to be in a mess. I'm not bashing him for taking a chance and heading somewhere new for a job opportunity. I just think he's at a serious turning point in his life where he's obviously trying to turn a new leaf and get things together. I think the whole idea of making an adventure out of it while it may seem grand is short sited and will just cause more stress and problems for someone who clearly doesn't need it.
Everyone can think what they want. Consider me an idiot, but I know what I needed when I first started this adventure and I stand by my decision. There is only one person in my life who knows everything that has happened and that is my wife. No one will get that personal with me and I will not talk about everything in a forum. There is a reason for this and when you don't know everything please don't question my mental state.
I don't see this ending up well. No offence to the OP but he is all over the place mentally and this whole thing just seems poorly thought out. The vehicle doesn't seem fit to take a cross town trip in much less cross country. It's inevitably going to die on this trip and he has no ability or money to fix it.