Just buy a used oem replacement from www.car-parts.com.Okay, not bring this thread back to life, but I just wanted to report back on this... I've run over 500 miles and nary a drop of oil is gone. No drips whatsoever. If anyone finds themselves in the situation, I suggest your #1 easy fix is trying to get a longer drain pan bolt. Take yours in to the local auto supply, and just check it against what is there. Two or three more threads can make a difference. Use high temp thread lock (don't go nuts with it, just a dab). And see if your bolt will re-torque to 15lbs.
Now I onl;y hope it comes off and goes back on again!
Just buy a used oem replacement from www.car-parts.com.
OEM replacement was $800+
The pan threads were stripped... not the oil pan bolt. Not all the way just enough to prevent the OEM nut from working (it would get near the point to torque, and then rotate). I was pretty pleased with this cheap fix.