If you want to learn the Grapevine knot, it's also known as a double fisherman's knot, and is illustrated
here.
WRT knot strength, you can find a lot of different theories and speculation, as well as different charts with different numbers. My 'Alpine Search and Rescue' text states that there have been many lab tests, but there has never been a documented case of climber's ropes breaking at the knot. They have all failed due to some other reason, like poor rope maintenance, or, more often, the rope passing over a sharp edge and getting cut. Ropes under tension cut very easily, even by rocks you wouldn't think of as sharp.
Granted, the text is pretty old, but the point is valid: Know your knots, sure, but don't put too much analysis into the knot and neglect the more common causes of rope failure.
Personnaly, I would suggest that a
figure-8 bend (tie a loose figure-8 in one rope, then follow it through with the other rope from the opposite direction, then tighten it down) MAY be SLIGHTLY stronger than the double fisherman's. But that's JMHO
