2) Question (might be a dumb one), you mention 300a for the first hour, but... if my alternator is only 300a total, and the truck system requires some amps, then how would I get 300a? Or does it not work like that?
It works exactly like that. The alternator is "current limited" (hell, all chargers and power supplies are current limited) to 300a. That's all you get. So if your boom box sound system is drawing 100a, there won't be more than 200a available for charging.
Am I looking at amps in hours when I shouldn't be, e.g., does the truck alternator rated at 300a only put out 300 amps an hour, or are the batteries rated at 20 hours and the alternator is rated at some other output beyond that.
Apples and oranges.
The battery's "20 hour rate" means how many amp*hours you will get if you put a steady load on it that will drain it in 20 hours. Say a 100 amp*hour battery. Put a 5a load on it, and it's dead in 20 hours and you'll have drawn out 100ah. There are different "X hour" rates. Batteries used for power backup, might be rated at the 5 hour rate, or the 10 hour rate (actually, they are mostly rated at the 6 hour rate).
The reason is the Peukert effect. Say a battery is rated 100ah at the 20 hour rate. 5a load draws it down in 20 hours, total drawn out 100ah. But that same battery with a 10a load on it will NOT last 10 hours. It will fully drained in say 8 hours. So that same battery would be rated "100ah @ 20hr rate" OR "80ah @ 10hr rate". Then again, if you cut the load in half to 2.5a, that same battery will last MORE than 40 hours. So that same battery might ALSO have a rating of "120ah @ 40hr rate".
The 20 hour rate is commonly used in automotive, marine, RV and solar applications.
The alternator's "300a" rating is the max it can put out. If it is actually run at that rate, it will deliver 300a in one hour, or 300ah. The gotcha is that when it's hot, it'll put out less. So a 100a rating usually actually means something like, "100a @ up to 200 degrees F, 80a above 200 degrees F".
All bets are off with custom alternators. You'll have to ask them about their unit's ratings at different temps.
3) I know people say that batteries should be topped up to 100% every so often to ensure longevity. How often is it recommended batteries be topped up? If I cycled, theoretically, between 50% and 85% discharge for long periods of time, and only hit 100%, say, once every month, would that be bad?
EVERY MINUTE that a lead-acid battery spends with its electrolyte less than fully saturated, sulfation of the plates will be occurring. The further below fully saturated it is, the faster that happens. For longevity (like a big expensive battery bank on a solar powered off-grid house) it is recommended that the battery reach full charge EVERY DAY.
When designing solar system for off-grid buildings, you figure out your loads and that gives you your daily energy budget. Double that to determine the required battery bank size (to stay above 50% drain on the batteries). Then you figure out how much solar you need to get that battery bank back to 100% every day.
On a truck - it's often not possible or practical. In that case, expect the batteries to have a shorter life-span.
4) Will a side effect of this setup be enhanced power for my winch? E.g., if I am using my winch, can I flick the switch on the blue sea acr to shift power from my house batteries to my truck batteries, causing basically unlimited winching power?
Unlimited? No. Longer run-time until you have to shut down and let the alternator recharge the batteries? Yes.
Unless...the alternator can supply all the winch needs - then the batteries won't be drained at all to run the winch and you would have unlimited as long as the engine is running.
But electric winches have a "duty cycle" rating anyway, and you have to allow them to regularly have a "cool down period". As long as you do that, the alternator will be "bulking up" the batteries during the winch's cool down.
And yes, you can force tie the batteries during winching with the large Blue Sea ACR, which is one of the nice things about that unit.
5) Any suggestions on a good monitoring solution to have hooked up to the house batteries to manage all of this, and to see the charging rate in real-time?
Bogart Tri-Metric or Xantrex LinkPro would be the most commonly used. Both have amp counters and will require a shunt. SmartGauge is also good, but is not an amp counter (it's algorithmic) and doesn't require a shunt.