We've been managing the heat to stay under 210 by running the heater on the passes- not ideal, but it works for now, and haven't seen it above 210. Open the windows, crank the tunes, and embrace the heat

We also downshift to get the fan pushing max amount of air. 35 MPH in 3rd gear seems to do the trick- just make sure to put the four ways on.
@kerry this is an interesting thought, EGT could be something we look into.
I am working with a local shop in Durango to try to get a custom radiator built before we hit the road full time. Allan at Overlander Global installed a new STOCK radiator in a clients truck that was having similar overheating issues, and that resolved it immediately, so the current theory is that pushing a big brick over CO passes is just a slight bit more than the 15 year old cooling system can handle, so even the marginal performance gain from a new stock radiator helped. Tempted to simply do a new stock Rad as well, but worried that as it gets gummed up over time the problem will re-appear.
Thanks all for the insights so far- below is where we woke up this AM- appreciate y'all helping get us this far.
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