But right there you have listed an additional system that wasn't on older diesels. The DEF system, while not complicated, is another system that will need attention. Along with particle filters. The diesel engine itself is likely very reliable but all the accessories around it add complexity that most people in this group try to avoid. There's a reason that NA gas engines are much more popular than turbo or supercharged engines because they are less complicated with fewer things that may need attention.
I hope I'm wrong as diesels are a great and efficient engine by themselves but I just see the increase in complexity to be their Accilles heal.
Except in every other part of the world diesel powered vehicles are very very common. While they have been losing a little ground due to heavy emissions regulation, they still make up almost 40% of new vehicle sales. We just don't get the same options as the rest of the world. Euro and US emissions requirements are also not aligned.
The turbo on my 1992 Dodge W250 diesel was still going strong at 400,000 miles.
I do miss the simple mechanically injected diesel engines....but 'simple' was still a bit of a misnomer. People didn't just rebuild their injection pumps on the tailgate very often.
Gasoline engine technology is every bit as complex as diesel engines these days with trends toward direct injection, forced induction, emissions requirements, etc.