all of those are at or under 30" tall. Maybe I spent too much time on Jeep forum before here, but that is scoffed at for anything other then 'mall crawling' or what have you.
It sounds like you need to figure out what your truck does in stock trim with proper tires. If shocks are your issue, you aren't exactly "doing things twice" by replacing them unless you want to lift more than 2" later.
Also, start with a properly sorted vehicle before you modify it. It doesn't sound like you're anywhere close. Yeah, I know that tie rod ends and suspension bushings aren't exciting and don't make it look any different when you're done, but it's the proper way to start.
Also, being worried about repair costs/fuel economy and lifting/even owning a 2.5 ton vehicle are not really compatible.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but the fact that you are worried about what you describe as a "mall crawler" (which isn't even what that term means) indicates you are more concerned with looks than function, yet you keep describing that you are concerned with function. Choose one. If it's looks, just admit that you yourself: that's OK as it's your truck and you can do what you like with it. 33's and a 2" lift while you drive exclusively around a city pretty accurately describes "mall crawling" to a much greater extent than driving an offroad capable and well sorted stock truck.