Well we finally got the tension correct on the tensioner pully and our protrusion on the hydraulic piston was 4.9mm after turning the crank around 2x and letting it sit for 5 minutes ish. I think the part of the problem was, initially, i was using a 14mm wrench on the tensioner pulley center bolt and it felt like i was putting a ton of force into tightening it, but in reality it wasnt tight enough. Once we put the torque wrench on it right away while my buddy held the tension on the pulley, we finally got the center bolt tightened to spec.
The timing marks all look good, but man, the crank pulley timing mark really messes with you, it will look off when your looking at it from the top. We kept saying to each other..."is it off by a little or is it on" I read from a mitsu tech, that if your off by one tooth it will look way off, and if it looks a little off your prolly good to go.
We are buttoning it up now, ill have some more information/tips to share for people looking back on this thread to do there timing belt when everything checks out good
Thanks for all the help and suggestions!