The Carli and Thuren coils are softer than the stock rates. They may be too soft for hauling your cabover. Serious damping would help a bunch too. The stock shocks are designed to deliver a soft ride to convince the prospective buyer to buy.
For what it’s worth, I have the Thuren 0.5” soft ride springs up front on my RAM 3500 and have been carrying around my Lance camper for 8+ months now and have no complaints about any payload impacts. Paired with the King 2.5” shocks they’ve performed well both on and off road.
Just ordered a set of Thuren 1" springs for my 2018 2500. They're the same as the 0.5" springs for the 3500. I haul a 720 lb Callen camper every day and have a small trailer, so I'm keeping the stock rear springs. Sounds like what Adventurous did as well.
Also ordered King 2.5" shocks all around. Don has a special tune for stock rear springs. He's also got a new "Stage 2.5" tune for folks like us. And he had them in stock, so they shipped the next day.
All of the above was discussed with Don via email and those were his recommendations, along with a front track bar. He's pretty responsive via email, so give a shout if you don't believe us or want to special order the Stage 2.5.
To answer your original question, I've run 315's or 35's on my '07 2500 for about 100K with no major issues. Ride is much better than stock. I'm running Carli coils, Thuren King 2.5's Stage 3 (front) and 4 (rear), and Deavers with Thuren shackles in the rear. The Deavers do squat with weight, but it was totally level with the Callen and Thuren shackles. I'd think about air bags on mine with a Lance. Oh.... and you could solve your dilemma by just buying my '07.