Looks awesome Ben!! Well let me know when you'd like to teach me how to make a rear bumper like that. Can you explain the why you "drilled and tapped to 7/16-20 grade 8 hardware" for the hubs? Is there a big difference to the standard hub hardware on DIs?
To elaborate on Ben's answer the bolts are not suposed to be loaded in sheer. the torque is suposed to be transferred from the flange to the hub by the friction between the two faces. The larger hardware increases the clamping forces because larger diameter bolts stretch less then smaller diameter ones. Once the bolts come loose the bolts are acted on in sheer and that where the problems start.