Martyn said:
Have never felt the need to travel with a firearm, and I've been to some interesting places, Beirut, Libya, Namibia / South West, Zimbabwe, and South Africa when they were lit up like fireworks.
I have seen on many occasions what happens to people who pull a handgun and find the people they are confronting are slightly better armed with AK's. For some reason the thought of traveling armed seems to attract negative attention, while unarmed is disarming.
In those situations, Martyn, it is not remotely smart to be armed! I don't know about Lebanon, Libya, or south Africa, but Nairobi is such an awful place, especially for a woman. You have to be really careful driving around the city - try not to come to complete stops, keep the doors locked, and if possible have a guard with you. At the place where I stay, out off the Magadi Road south of Karen, there are armed (AKs), drugged-out gangs that do the usual rob, rape, and pillage, so our homes are fortresses. Everyone wears panic buttons around chains on their necks and the homeowners pay for a private security checkpoint and radio relay. I hate it because I feel so helpless. A friend is suggesting I learn Krav Maga, but really - a 120 lb woman against 4-6 or more armed druggies hell-bent for no good?
Anyway, I solve the problem by not staying there if I can help it, preferring to camp in the bush! I always feel safer out with four-legged critters and our Maasai friends as guards (out where they still carry their spears). Seriously, nobody likes to mess with those guys.
At home and when travelling in the US I do carry - I have a CCW for my HKP7. Why? When I've been out alone hiking, twice I've been confronted by (real) bad guys and once had to pull my weapon, which I absolutely am sure saved me from bad intent (real bad). When it's legal and the situation warrants, I prefer to carry - I am not going to be a victim.
At home, we've got a shotgun and buckshot. Why? We have no neighbors, the sheriff takes 30 min to an hour to get to us, and that's if we have phone reception at the time. I feel much much safer here than in any town, but if there is trouble (we do live in high-alert drug trafficking area), I don't want to be a victim. Druggies running from border patrol have hurt and terrorized more than a few folks down in the valley.
Important takehome lesson, though: NO ONE should carry unless they are willing to shoot/kill someone. A gun shouldn't be thought of as something to "just to scare someone off" with, because as Martyn says, it can lead to worse things and if you're not willng/prepared to step over that line, it's always bad news. When I pulled mine and told the guy who had followed me onto the trail (and who had taken off his clothes and made his intentions clear) to back off NOW or I'd shoot him, I wasn't kidding and he knew it - he took off (which later was funny, seeing a naked guy running through the San Pedro River).
Just something to think about.