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Just to be clear to those who might otherwise prefer or feel compelled to interpret the below somehow as a personal, individual attack, these comments are only intended as a general stream of consciousness statement sharing some thoughts and very real concerns that have occurred recently to me. This activity is something I believe we actually try to encourage in the Fireside Chat section of this Forum. However, if I’m woefully misinformed as to the appropriateness of these comments Mods, let me know please. Thank you.
Sadly, empathy is in very short supply in this country these days.
And why is that?
Do we feel morally superior somehow by being proud of our uncaring?
If that’s the case, one might ask himself why he needs to feel that.
Ultimately, how much does it really “cost” us to feel just a bit of sorrow or sympathy for the plight of another person who is less fortunate than ourselves?
So while it may be easier to feel some sympathy for someone in distress who’s actions didn’t contribute to his plight, it seems we’re becoming more and more hard wired to feel much less charity towards those in cases where we blame them for the creation of their own misery.
(Perhaps this attitude is just another version of the invisible bumper sticker so many of us have on our car these days, ”I’ve got mine, screw you!”)