For what application are AGM's worth it?
Applications where long calendar life under light usage is desired. Or high vibration resistance is needed. I have an AGM as a starer battery, it has performed well, and not needing to add water is advantageous. For very cold weather, some AGMs (high plate count pure lead types) have very low internal resistance, and will provide superior cranking amps. In some installations minor acid venting causes corrosion issues, so AGM is needed.
For deep cycling applications, an AGM battery is not ideal due to the general restriction on equalize charging, and higher cost. The major reasons to use an AGM type deep cycling battery are. Extreme vibration, No access for watering, need to mount on the side, etc.
In very high current applications (1C or higher) AGM batteries using pure lead and high plate counts are superior to flooded. They have lower internal resistance, and will have a lower peukert coefficient.
So obviously AGM batteries have their applications, but for a borderline abusive usage case, like running a fridge with poor charging, they will not provide service equal to their price tag.
There are AGM deep cycle batteries that can out perform flooded batteries when charged fully after most cycles. They are expensive. In fact lifeline batteries will perform similarly to flooded batteries of the same class, and can be equalize charged (if done soon enough) to remove sulfation. They are very expensive at around 3$ per AH.