You'll be fine. I've had front & rear ARBs for years and experienced no ill effects. It's not like you would be driving around with your ARBs "on" all of the time. On average, I bet my ARBs are on for less than 30 seconds at a time. I only use them to get through an obstacle that I'm expecting loss of traction. You'll never want to have your ARBs "on" when you're just driving around... it's just too much traction, and you wouldn't hardly be able to steer. Many people think ARBs are handy driving down a snow covered road; no, on snow they'll only put you in the ditch. When I lived in Alaska this was why I decided on ARBs instead of a less expensive Lock-Right or even Detroits... so you can turn them off instead of them "coming to the rescue" at inopportune times.
Now about the stress you were concerned about. Unless you upgrade your front and rear ends you may break a front axle periodically. The only time I've broken an axle is when my front ARB is on. Remember that "too much traction" I talked about earlier? In my case ARBs and 37" IROKs is just too much stress on that itsy-bity Dana 30. I snap a couple short-side axles a year. So I buy up a couple used axles to bring on the trail with me and have another spare sitting at home in the garage. I could upgrade my front end & lose ground clearance or I could get chrome-moly axles and risk destroying my ARB. So I choose where I want the weak-spot to be... the short side axle shaft. I carry a spare hub, two short side axles and one long side axle just in case. I have the pit-stop down to 15 minutes including explaining to other trail mates how to change the axle and why I still run a Dana 30.
I would hold off on purchasing ARBs until you've settled on your final dif-gears. I wouldn't go with gearing lower than 4.56:1 because the 4.88:1 ring gear is dangerously thin (on a Chryco 8.25). Let's say you ran 35x12.5R15's, 4.56s and ARBs; you would be fine IMHO & experience. Just mind the skinny pedal. I break axles because of my tire size, locked ARB, and Dana 30... and I REALLY mind the skinny pedal. If you ran smaller tires and bigger gears I wouldn't imagine you would ever experience problems; say 32x11.5R15s & 4.10s.
I know I ramble & babble a lot, but I hope that helps. :smiley_drive: