I've got an 80 and a Tacoma with a V6 and automatic trans. I really don't know why the automatics get such a bad rap. I have no problems with mine and even with large tires, stock gearing and lots of other weight the Tacoma feels plenty "zippy", much more than my 80 does. It could be the combination of the auto behind a 4cyl. I'm sure that wouldn't be great since the 4cyl are down on power anyway and losing some through the automatic probably makes them feel very slow. But to me its a very different thing with the V6.
The V6 has a better reputation for reliability and in my mind that makes it much more desireable than the 4cyl. Any slight drop in mpg with the V6 are worth it for the extra power and reliability.