After reading over this thread, and without trying to grenade your intentions, I had a couple more thoughts. It may be way too late but,
1. Do you have room for a truly big block motor? Our daughter rented a 26' MoHo, class C, Ford F-450 chassis, V-10. We put 1800 miles on the RV with about 11 mpg and a LOT of torque. And quiet.
2. I've had several friends that had GM 454's in their pickups (w/TH400), work trucks (TH400 and SM-465), and a 30 foot, class A, MoHo called 'Elvis', (w/5 speed GM truck trans). In every case, the motors were reliable and servicable, if not mpg friendly.
Another thought is the current GM V-8 Diesel powerplant. There comes a point where the front frame horns will not support such massive amounts of torque without major frame boxing. How do I know this?
If your intention is to use the rig in a limited manner, then any choice of gas engine will be fine as you'll never get to the mileage tipping point where the fuel savings will pay for the $5K-10K penalty for buying an in-demand diesel powerplant. Just some more grist for your powerplant ambitions.
As for me, I'm so old school that being underpowered is a good thing. I've owned 12 4WD's and 5 diesel cars in my time, so I've seen the gamut of oil power. One of the 4WD's was a Yellow 1980 Scout Traveler (118" wb), factory 6-cyl. Nissan, 3.3L turbo diesel with 101 neck snapping HP, 23:1 compression, T-19, close ratio, all synchro 4 speed, Texas pattern Dana 300 Tcase. I did an SOA, put big tires on, and Trash-Locs and drove all the named jeep trails in the SW. In low range all that sooty torque shone brightly. In fact, the rig had great off-road traction as it did not make enough power to spin the wheels-not unlike the original 60 HP Jeep 4-banger. You are right about the power to weight with diesel engines. The Nissan weighed around 850 pounds. My 6BT HO Cummins weighs 1022 pounds; just the engine. Boat anchors, all. But the Nissan, with a fully loaded Scout got 20-22 mpg on a trip to Canada and back to CA.
regards, as always, jefe