The only Zuki that would fit our needs would be the XL7 with the third row... Honda? Not sure what Honda has to offer that has enough seating, looks halfway decent and can be used expeditioning. Toyota, the LC sucks gas and makes me depressed just thinking about how much gas it uses and how much it would cost to go adventuring. We almost bought a 94 LC before we got my wife her current 99 XJ. We really liked the rig, but the engine doesn't have much power for how heavy it is and the mileage...
The Sequoia is the other Toyota option... but it's MPG isn't that great either and it's more $$ than I most other options out there.
I've come to terms that finding the right vehicle is almost impossible in the U.S. that gets decent gas mileage, suits the needs of a bigger family and still physically appeals to the standards of my wife and I.
Right now we're leaning more towards the second gen Montero, 97-99, SOHC, with the factory locker, third row seating and great base off-road performance in stockish form.
Granted the aftermarket support is minimal for the Monty, I feel that it's the best compromise for space requirements, looks, and MPG. I've always wanted to get into more fabrication... so this would be a good excuse to learn
Eventually I might even swap in a diesel (seeing as how there are Canuck Monties that came w/diesel).
From what I've read and been told on here and other forums, a Montero with an off-road trailer of some sort should suit the needs of a growing family while still allowing us to go fun places together without breaking the bank. I'd love a Land Cruiser, but economically I think that we could do a lot more in a Monty than we could in a LC. Someday when I win the lottery that I don't play, I could afford a LC with a beefier engine and justify it that way.