If you plan to cross the border, ULSD isn't available much in Mexico and beyond. Newer diesels "require" it.
Diesels are noisy. My gas van is virtually silent. Seriously. People ask if it's electric. We're talking about a 1989 Ford, not a new hybrid or anything. It's just a well tuned 4.9 with a larger than stock muffler.
Diesels are expensive to repair. The most expensive thing under my hood is probably the ECM ($100) or my upgraded alternators ($85 x 2) or my upgraded starter ($65) or distributor ($55). That all totals $390. That $ won't buy 2 of the cheapest injectors RockAuto lists for a 7.3PSD van.
Diesels are expensive to maintain. My oil change is $29.99 at JiffyLube. A 7.3PSD is $129.99. Literally $100 difference. PSD oil changes are at 7,500 miles. Mine are 3,000. In 100k miles, I need 34 oil changes but the diesel only needs 14. The diesel still costs another $1,400 to go the same distance, just in oil changes. Now, I don't take my van to Jiffy Lube (just my company truck, they pay) and there are surely cheaper places to go but it's an apples-to-apples comparison.
Diesels can get better mileage than comparable gas burners. I get 17 hwy. A 7.3 PSD isn't gonna beat that by much. Let's say it gets 20. (My 7.3 CC DRW gets 17 tops) Let's say gas is $2.00/gal and diesel is 20% more. The $ changes but the % is pretty steady. $11,764 gets my gasser to 100k miles. The diesel does it for $11,000 even, or 6.9% less. Now, consider the $1,400 overage on oil changes and that 764 seems like an even smaller margin of victory.
Between maintenance and fuel mileage, a diesel might do so well as to break even. Throw in just one repair though and there's just no way. This isn't even respective of differences in purchase price, insurance, or the added wear and tear all the weight of a diesel causes.
My van suits me. A diesel wouldn't suit me any better. Nuff said.