One thing that I notice about alot of dual battery setups is the tendency to "what if" yourself to death. My personal favorite method merely involves a solenoid or a Sure-Power 1315-200. It will do what 95% of people doing dual battery setups are trying to accomplish and is relatively simple and it's a no brainer configuration.
Best of all it's relatively inexpensive (probably a little over $100 in parts) and you can make changes or upgrade things pretty easily. Sure solid state relays are nice but they haven't proven themselves to be any more reliable than a high quality solenoid. Want a gauge, add one. No problem. I think this will give
most people what they are looking for, for the least expense and with minor variations, can be personalized to specific needs.
Here are the main attributes of this system:
Batteries are islolated when key is off
Batteries parallel when key is turned to accesssory position (this eliminates a dead aux battery from dragging down the good battery during start
If front battery is fully drained, jump start switch will manually parallel batteries