First road trip with the kids!

keylay

Adventurer
Howdy!
At the end of 2018, I made a career change to public education. Prior to this summer, my past eleven summers were anchored around pools, hiring and training hundreds of lifeguards. During that time, I got married, had two sons, Carson (6) and Hayden (3) and got into a rhythm with work. Missing a sense of adventure and the ability to really be present in my kids lives during summer activities and even during the school year, I switched into education. My wife has been a teacher since graduating college, and one of the benefits of the job is a calendar filled with opportunity to travel through the year.

Having the opportunity to leave for a while and not be tied to work was amazing! We made the most of the eight days escaping the heat and hustle of Houston.

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On July 2nd, 2019, I woke the family up around 3:10am and pulled out of the driveway by 3:37am. The kids were excited and Hayden's car seat was switched to forward facing a few days prior. He was now able to see the journey in a new light. We oriented north towards Dallas and the kids fell asleep once we reached the high way. Should they wake up, we would tell them they couldn't talk unless the sun was awake. Momma and I had good conversation for a few hours.

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Our first major stop was breakfast at Chic Fil A just north of Dallas, Texas. We let the boys stretch their legs in the playscape while we fueled our bellies. Momma had a bright idea to give them prizes at planned stops every few hours on the first day, something to look forward too. Here they are waiting for their Toy Story 4 toys.

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We made it to Oklahoma! Living and working in one of the largest urban areas in the country, i'm surrounded by concrete. Even driving one hour in any direction, you're still in the city. So many people and so much traffic. I always notice that outside of the big cities, most of the country is wide open spaces, and this is really felt in Oklahoma. Not that Texas doesn't have open spaces, but knowing that most of Texas is privately owned, it feels nice to see a change of scenery.

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Near Lake Eufaula in Oklahoma, we filled up the 2010 Subaru Forester 2.5X. It is stock and has an auto transmission and we have a set of decent Continental tires. A week before the trip, we did a tune up with new plugs, fluids and brakes. So far, we we're getting 29 mpg. I filled up with 89 octane without ethanol and subsequently got 33 mpg. Our other vehicle is a 2003 Toyota 4Runner with a V8, but needing some new tires, we didn't want to be rattled to death. I'm sure the 4.7 would have done fine chugging up some of those hills and mountains.

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We hooked a right and headed east on 40 into Fort Smith, Arkansas. The landscape really changed as we headed north on 49 towards Fayetteville. I can see why they call Arkansas, "The Natural State". The kids were holding up just fine, watching DVDs, playing with Legos, coloring and sleeping. No signs of restlessness at eight hours in the car.

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About ten hours after we left Houston, we arrived at our first stop. This is my wife's cousins home in Bella Vista, Arkansas on Loch Lomond. They moved from Houston in 2005 and haven't looked back. I can see why!

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Here, we were rewarded with a few days on the lake, kayaking, floating and boating. The homes and landscape of these homes were beautiful. I'm guessing a lot of Wal-Mart money in that area!!!
 
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keylay

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We went on a hiking trip around Tanyard Creek. Cool, damp overhang and natural bridges and shade from the trees were taken in.

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Lower falls with some families playing in the steps.

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The upper falls were impressive too. The boys were too scared to hike up to them and behind them because of the noise so momma and i took turns to do so.

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The house was only eight miles to the Missouri border, and for five years, i have spent summers as a volunteer and staff at a non-deonimational Christian camp in SW Missouri. It is for kids and adults with physical and mental disabilities, as well as their siblings. For some, it is Heaven on Earth and its truly a special place.

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Each plaque on this cross is a camper who has passed from their illness or disability. We remember them here at I.P. or Inspiration Point. My first summer I was on staff, in 2005, I met another guy, Mike. It was Mikes first summer on staff too and we were both from Texas. We spent two more summers working together and I haven't visited or returned since 2007. Low and behold, Mike is now the camp director their at camp and has been a huge piece of what's happened at camp.

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After a few days in Arkansas, we headed north east towards Branson. We journeyed through Eureka Springs into Missouri once again, bringing the boys with us this time. The trip to camp was just with momma and I for the day.

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Arriving a few hours ahead of my parents who were on their own road trip to Minnesota, we took a ride on the Showboat Branson Bella. This paddle boat took us on a tour of Table Rock Lake, which was WAY crowded since we were there over the 4th of July weekend!

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For two nights, we stayed at the Barnabas House. This is part of the Barnabas, Inc. missions and is a two-year school program for adults who age out of public school programs and aren't attending college. During the school year, they stay at this house and learn personal life skills and job training. During the summer, they manage it as a Bed & Breakfast. They had fantastic breakfast prepared by the students each morning. As previously mentioned before, I'll be teaching my first year of school in August. It was at Camp Barnabas and through this organization that I formed a passion for Special Needs, so that is what I'll be teaching. It was really special to stay at this house.

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Our last day in Branson, we spent walking to much, eating to much and riding roller coasters until we were beat with Mema and Papa. The next morning they headed north and we headed south. Since we visited Silver Dollar City on Sunday after 4th of July, the park was almost empty. No wait on any rides!!!

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On the final stretch of rode, we ran into some car troubles. Not ten minutes into the morning, the dash lights up and i lost power in cruise control on a hill on the interstate. After pulling over, popping the hood and getting gas, we continue on our way. However, I didn't even look under the hood at the fuel station, so i forgot to close the hood. It was only when i was going 70 mph and saw the hood flapping, i realized i didn't shut it. Hanging on by a latch is what saved a broken windshield or lost hood. After shutting it, i GPSed it to the next town with an auto store and scanned the code, only to find it was an EVAP code....loose gas cap. After clearing it, we were on our way. Thirty minutes later. The boys had to pee.

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After our six stop fiasco in the first two hours, we made decent time to Little Rock for lunch and then down through Ouachita Nat. Forest and back into Texas. Sad to see on the news that area flooding now :( The boys slept for almost three hours and momma and I had more great conversation. I tried to convince her to be full time roadies and she said "no way". So, i guess we'll settle for trips over breaks since we're both teachers. Thanksgiving break. Christmas break. Spring break and next summer!
 

outdoornate65

Adventurer
Build those memories Brother.

No kid looks back at their childhood and says "I remember all those awesome times I played video games in my room."

A few years ago, while my wife was deployed for a year to A-stan, I took my kids (ages 6/8 at the time) on a two month road-trip.
We covered 5000 miles, visited 10 National Parks and visited/camped with family along the way.

We still talk about that trip and all the fun we had. Heck, my kids are now teens and still enjoy camping with their crusty old Dad.

Thanks for sharing,

Nate
 

barongan

New member
Brave children, congrats
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6door74

Member
Nice trip. My family and I just got back from a week on the road. Maryland (home) ---> Georgia (Cleveland) ----> Tennessee(Chattanooga & Memphis) ----> Louisiana (New Orleans) ----> back to Maryland. My 5, my brother plus his 3 kids, my sister's 2 kids, and our 2 dogs. Already planning next year's trip. We've always done road trips as i like to drive, flying is expensive, and the journey is just as rewarding as the destination. Keep it up and be sure to print those pictures. The last few years I've been making books through Shutterfly with pictures of our trips.
 

Kps396

New member
Making memory’s is what it’s all about ! You and the family look to be a fun group ! Travel on !
 

Alloy

Well-known member
The Best of Times!!

We've been doing road trips for years. The memories began to fade so last year I bought an electronic picture frame. We have 6 of them now each with pictures split into 1-2 year increments.

Our time on the road grew from 3-4 days to 5 weeks. We though about extending the trip this year but the kids (12 &14) were missing thier freinds allot.... spend the time when you still can.
 

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