Umm... pissing contests and war stories aside, maybe it would help if the OP gave a little more guidance about what he's looking for in a rig.
Full disclosure: I have a 4dr Wrangler, which I have used for many multi-day "expedition" type trips (Mojave, etc.), and I think for the price the capability it is difficult to beat. My wife and I have an air mattress and sleep in the back w/ the rear seats folded down. It takes 10 minutes to make camp, and it is incredibly comfortable. I happen to like the aesthetic inside, and I find it very well designed to do what it's supposed to do and not a whole lot more.
From the brief description, it doesn't seem like the OP is looking for the best rock crawler, mud bogger, or other special purpose rig. It looks like he's looking for a reliable, solid, simple rig to get him where he needs to go. The truth is, if you want to do those other things, you are shelling out lots of bucks for mods anyway, and at that point, this discussion is academic.
I can say that in my experience, the Wrangler platform (even one that's only a few years old) is incredibly cheap and easy to build on. I do not have a ton of experience in the Toyota, Land Rover domain, but from what I've seen the availability and diversity of parts and the cost of those parts is somewhat more limiting.
One additional data point: I'm running 35" Toyo tires and a 3" lift, and I find my rig incredibly comfortable both on and off road. My wife and I drove from San Francisco to Moab in one day, wheeled the crap out of it for a long weekend, and then did the same trip in return without breaking a sweat. There may be other vehicles out there that can claim the same, but I can personally account for the fact that the 4dr Wrangler platform is one of them.
Is it as comfortable on the freeway as an FJ? Maybe not. Is it as plush as an LR3? I doubt it. But with (arguably) more versatility than an FJ and at about half the cost of an LR3, you can still have a blast, wheel just about anywhere, and be sure you'll make it "home" at the end of the day.
You'll find incredibly uninformed opinions wherever you turn. Good luck with your search
