I feel like this thread should be required reading material for any camping family with any vehicle. Many of the things discussed are things I’ve done on my Subaru Outback to keep us in the acceptable handling and load range. We 2kids and 2 parents just did 12day Zion,Bryce,Capitol Reef, Arches, Canyon Lands, Dead Horse and North rim trip. Given mom hasn’t reached fun Dirt level experience yet our setup is more Highway focused stock hybrid highway/M+S tires on the 06 Sequoia with the 4x6 Life Time tent trailer (original) nakid. All gear in back of Sequoia other than a slim low profile ski box on the roof. Our Subaru outback doesn’t do these trips. Just works too hard. The old Sequoia doesn’t notice the 900lb 4x6 nor does our mileage or speed/stability 80-85mph across the desert at 15mpg is really nice!!!! LOL
All the dirt roads we did see a Honda civic could have easily done. The roads I wanted to do but mom umm nixed any stock 4x4 can easily safely do.
We do want to change up our tent on a trailer to a hard side short height trailer like the Intech Explore. But I want a popup roof on the short height box like a four wheel truck camper roof. That way we retain as much highway performance as possible, standing head room at camp, and easy kids bunking option at the height of the hard side wall. Then Parents can bunk on a flip down bed on the floor. Also its monsoon wind capable and bear counters legal vs our current tent on a trailer isn’t.
My personal feeling is keeping to 27ft or less all up in length so we stay under the Ranger imposed length limits in many places. That and tent sites are more our style vs side by side RV storage errr parking at the RV / campgrounds. LoL
I think 2500-3000lbs max or less for the 5000lb rated rigs give you the best highway performance and off highway experience.