... nothing about it felt like a jeep
... it did not feel like a jeep
This is the sentiment my friend who owns one (JKU-slightly modded) tells me all the time. In the beginning it was said as a good thing. Now it sits in the garage/shop, while he chooses his CJ-7 or even his '80s beater station wagon for DD duties. Seems like previous Jeep owners find the "new" wears off owning a JK wears out pretty quick compared to their old rides. I like the look of a JKU topless with the cargo netting and tube doors and wide 33-35's. Any other look and theirs 20 of them on the road with you every time you go out....."Stocker Mom" or "Catalog Commando" or the weird yuppie who needed a "truck" (2 dr 2wd base model) for weekend trips to Lowes for bird seed!
I'm not slamming the JKs or their owners-I live in an urban area now and have noticed a funny trend here. I lived in Miami for a while and if you saw a "ride" there it was individualized usually. Here they copy-cat magazines and the poster in the tire shops! And its not just Jeeps-You see atleast 2-3 Raptors everytime you are on the road! Not even going into the ricers and diesel monster trucks. I always chuckle and point it out to my wife when you see one of the JK minion, who have called Quadatec and ordered one of everything, pointing and oohing at a beefed but battered xj or Grand C next to them in traffic. We have a huge Jeep population here because of our climate but there isn't much here except private/commercial wheeling/mudding parks and IMO they are too overpriced.
All that rambling leads me to say if you want a Jeep-you have the LJ (IMO the best modern platform Jeep offered) so get the "family hauler" that will serve best not just look the look. I have seen some really nicely equipped WJs if you want some plushness, otherwise the XJs are light, tough, and offer room and toys. Drop a Supercharger into the picture and towing the pop-up on the highway becomes a non issue for a lot less than a JK just for the V6! If you don't have to have a Jeep since you get to keep the LJ there are MANY cool suvs. Toyota LC, 4Runners, Rodeos, Troopers, Monteros, pre- '92 3/4 ton Suburbans, Excursions, and the like. All can be had in tough versions that will last a long time and haul serious gear. 4 cylinders to V8 Diesels, and straight axles and aftermarket options galore, some even would allow you tow bring the LJ along as a dinghy!! But if stuck on the Jeep brand...get the XJ, dump some money into it, take the remaining budget money and buy some Guns, Archery gear, canoes, (anything else you can think of to engage the kids in things that they will enjoy and you can teach them responsibility with), trick out your trailer, Badminton sets, whatever. But Do it and post up some pics!