To update this thread,
I ended up getting a Victron MPPT controller, I think it was the 100/20 linked above. I also picked up a Renogy 30A DCDC charger. However, I'm having second thoughts and might switch over to the
Renogy DCC30S or
Kisae SCD1230 which are integrated charger/controllers. One problem is the stand alone DC charger are huge, relatively speaking. Maybe for a sprinter van or RV where they mount inside, it might not be an issue, but for under the hood of an SUV it takes up a lot of valuable space. It's about the same footprint as a small car battery at half the height, so finding a working spot for the charger and controller is getting complicated. I don't know why the DC DC chargers are so huge, I also picked up a 12/24V converter and tested it out like Swiftone recommended and it seems to work fine with the MPPT controller, and the combined size is less than the DC charger alone.
The other thing I don't like about the Renogy DC charger is the cooling fans. I must have overlooked that fans since I was looking at so many different controllers and chargers at once. But active cooling in the dirty and dusty environment under the hood of a car doesn't seem like a good idea. From the pictures is look like the Renogy and Kisae uses passive finned heatsinks without the fans.
The Victron controller is overkill for this particular purpose, I could have used a much cheaper 20A MPPT controller, but I have other plans for it in case I don't use it for this project. I do like the built in bluetooth monitoring from their app, I think that alone might be worth the added cost.
I looked at the RedArc unit also, but it's nearly double the price of other options so that kinda go eliminated quickly. I'm sure it's probably better than the less expensive options, but I have a very simple setup and don't really need all the bells and whistles. As long as my battery gets charged I'm satisfied.