Yeah, I've been thinking of going with a BlueOx tow bar, seems the best fit. May use this as an excuse to change the front bumper though. Looking at the Rock Hard full width bumper. It's set up (with a couple of added brackets) to have a Blue OX connect directly to it. It's ready for a future winch and, well here we go down that slippery slope. They make it in aluminum which is ~90lbs lighter. Playing around with shipping, etc it ends up being only about $100 more because there's no excess weight shipping charges, have to see...
Are you planning anything for braking?