Again big thanks to MotoDave for graciously sending me some Delrin material to machine bushings. I didn't end up using it but seeing and feeling the material definitely inspired me to use it and this never would have happened if it weren't for this. Delrin (and a new crossmember) are definitely the solution to my problem (besides a correct alignment).
I was able to talk a long time friend, Eric Edwards, who is a machinist at Love Ridge machine in SLC that makes a lot of really neat products. Turbo housings for diesels, performance headers, military components, etc etc...
Here we go. I also had him machine some bushings for another project I'm working on which is a double isolated crossmember. I was worried with the rubber bushings in the crossmember that the drivetrain would shift forward and back on inclines and declines so this was a good solution for this. Eric does awesome work (really perfectly in spec to be press fit) but is also a perfectionist so this was a long evening. About 6 hours for the 12 or so bushings total, we were done at about midnight... But totally worth it..