Hi everyone, thanks for all of your input, and I appreciate the broad depth of opinions!
My truck doesn’t have the high GVW package. This is where my knowledge is limited (and why I’m here, on this forum), so I believe that means it’s got the standard SF axle, etc.
The airbags were already installed before I bought the truck, so I’m not sure if the camper max’s them. And I haven’t had a moment to weigh the axles separately.
Checked the tires, and they’re the basic Grabber APTs. That means a load range of 112/109, which = a low of 2271lbs per tire, or a conservative 9084lbs in total. So it feels like they’re about maxed on their own, let alone if the rear axle receives disproportionately more weight.
I’d thought we’d be just slightly over weight, but all our electrical system mods and the like (for example, 50lbs per battery) added up! And now we’re gearing up to drive a very long way (living in the rig). I feel we’re in the zone of ‘foolish’ burgeoning on ‘dangerous’, so I’m looking into other options. Thanks for all the input everyone!