I see you mentoned the Dodge Journey R/T awd. This car is pretty affordable. Go for it. But I don't think this car lasts well enough. But since you are buying new, then you are good.
Or if you do not mind a base model Armada, then Is trongly recommend the Nissan Armada. She will be very happy with you. I promise you. This is the trick, PLEASE, get her to the Nissan dealership and let her drive it. That is all you need to do. The base model drive out will be less than $35K. You truly will be pleased, I guarantee you that. Just convince her to get behind the wheel andrive it off the lot for a test drive.