CoastalDefender
Explorer
I found a 3500 lb axle at http://www.trailerpart.com/35ktraileraxle.htm that came in a variety of bolt patterns and was available in 1" increments. Complete axle and hubs for $105. I went with the 6 on 5.5 pattern and bought a set of wheel adapters from http://www.ezaccessory.com/Wheel_Adapters_s/25.htm to convert them to the 6 on 4.5 that I needed to match my truck. I went with a 60" axle and with the 1.5" adapeters that will give me a face to face length of 63". The wheels I ordered are 16x8 have a 5" backspace, and the axle required a minimum overhang of 11" so this will get me right on the money.
They're giving me the business of "only odd-number sized axles. 59", 61", 63", etc"
I have the same truck as you. I plan on using stock wheels, they have a 4.5" backspace. So I would think a 61" axle w/ 1.5" spacers (6x5.5->6x4.5) plus the stock wheels as 4.5" backspacing would give the same width as you have? Or at least damn close. Am I way off base here?