The rear cab mounts on these crew cabs are pretty close together- in the ball park of two feet (I've never measured them). They are also REALLY soft and flexible. Aftermarket rear cab mounts can be really stiff. I've heard of guys actually taking aftermarkets off and putting factory ones back on.
Ah yes, I forgot to mention that, thanks for catching it - this problem is even more evident with polyurethane mounts. However, I seem to recall hearing through the grapevine that factory mounts are either running low on stock and priced way high, or straight not available. Haven't personally verified that as our needs are not quite dire yet, but when the time comes if factory is not an option then we'll drop the poly in and inboard the rear mounts as far as they'll go - won't make the truck ride any nicer, but it will allow the frame to do its thing without taking the cab along for the ride.
I guess that is the great debate, is there anything detrimental about frame flex or is it part of the engineered function of the frame? If it doesn't cause any real problems then I am fine with it. My full length sliders I want to build will help and once the rear is done it won't put so much of the load on the frame since the suspension will move more freely.
I wouldn't think you will hurt the frame if you leave it unboxed. It's designed to twist, if anything by boxing it you may make it too rigid and cause it to develop cracks. Of course it also depends on how you box it... It's your call, if you got another project that's been demanding your attention I'd focus on that and don't worry about the frame. And like you said sliders will help some, especially if you overkill them good. Regarding the rear suspension, our plans as of right now involve ditching the stiff 1-ton packs and going with a high-arch halfton ones for ride comfort when empty, then gain the cargo capacity back with a pair of air springs on top of the leafs. Springs will be filled/dumped individually via 1/4" air lines, and there will be a larger (likely 3/8") crossover line between them with a valve - on pavement valve is closed and each air spring does its own thing, when suspension flex is needed valve is open and air can transfer side to side allowing the axle to hug the terrain better. Eventually the front axle will receive the same treatment as well. Ah, the endless possibilities OBA setups allow for... lol
Good luck with the radius arms. Actually just thought of something, would it be possible to just bolt them to the inboard side of the inner plate you have now, then add a new inner plate to that (and reinforce the heck out of it accordingly of course)? Basically that will move the RAs right around 2" inboard without messing with your coilover mounts. So when you look at your new RA mounts with the RAs removed, instead of the two current vertical plates the RAs fit between, there will be three vertical plates - your outer one remains in place, your currently inner one also remains in place but becomes a middle one, and then you have your new inner plate. To someone else it would look as if you have two mounting positions for the RAs, but only you'll know that the outer one (aka your current one) cannot be used due to tire clearance issues... If you use long enough bolts to pass through all three plates (gonna need spacers around them between outer and middle plates where the RAs currently live) that will help with overall strength as well. What do you think, yay or nay?