Wow! lots of work being done here! Just thought I would comment on the vent issue, typically air will want to flow "out" of the camper through the roof vent, not in, are you installing a fantastic fan? if so one should do the trick for air flow, just make sure a source of make up air is present ie, window. A fantastic fan does work very well and I recommend one, it can change the air in a camper your size in minutes.
I have 3" wall on my camper, but only at the base so that I can accommadate a hard side pop up, but as far as R value goes, in reality, 2" would be ample, dont forget that air will need to be exchanged constantly to avoid dying and condensation, so you never really want it totally sealed up, going to double pane windows will be in my opinion absolutely necassary to avoid massive amounts of condensation, might be nice outside but raining inside. A human body emites a huge amount of water vapour into the air that needs to get vented outside, so there is no chance of sealing up your camper so much that small amounts of BTU will keep it warm, once the bad air is vented and replaced with fresh (cold) air it will need reheating.
The vent over the stove will definately be a powered unit. The second vent might just be a vent for now but I'll pull wiring so it isn't hard to swap in the guts of a powered unit if desired.
Double pane windows were substantially more expensive than the basic single panes I picked up. They're all clamp in windows these days so I'll run these for now and consider an upgrade later if I need to. I'll have an Atwood 8012 installed in here (sitting in a box on the shelf currently) which will throw plenty of BTUs for this size space and at 1.8amps while running it won't be too harsh on the battery bank.