This is a great thread, tracking build progression and now a dillemma.....what to do if you add a small person to the mix, what if it was twins (yikes).
I had an extra cab 98 Tacoma and loved it. I had to let it go to make room. Now I have two kids -5 and 3. I have an 07 DC Tacoma.
Couple of points:
The first two years you will definitely be slowed down. This was a real game changer for me. I had to go through a few identity crisis situations but now I'm good watching those with no kids and no real sense of commitment and dedication and I just wonder if they know how much they are missing. Don't let your new identity get you down and don't fight it. It only makes it harder to accept and harder to be the parent you need to be without resenting the situation.
Regarding the truck, I hate to say it but you probably need to upgrade to something with 4 doors. Putting a caraway in the back and strapping or clicking a kid in and out of that thing is a long term hate relationship. I hate carseats. My kids hate carseats. Making them accessible and comfortable for you and your kids is key to a long roadrrip.
Regarding safety. Newer vehicles, whether built in Japan in the touted master assembly line or in the good old USA where auto manufacturing has its roots, are safer. With carseats you can never really anchor a car seat with just a seatbelt. Newer vehicles have carseat tabs that are key for safety. Don't kid yourself that a shoulder or lap belt can achieve the same safety level of tabs. Newer vehicles also have crumple zones and side airbags.
Regarding the T100, a close friend of mine had one, a really nice one. Clean, no rust, low miles. Well, he was driving on a curvy road and someone crossed the center line and he swerved. The truck rolled (he says it rolled very easily - it was not lifted) and immediately caught on fire. He has two kids same age as mine. Lucky the kids were at home. They would have died in that truck had they been strapped in their carseats because there was no way to get into the backseat with the truck on its side. The truck burned and was a total loss. He we went out and bought a double cab tundra after the insurance settled with him. He said he would never again brisk not having access to his kids car seats in an emergency.
Food for thought. That T-100 is awesome, but is it the right truck for a family? If I was single and kid free I would have a T-100 but as a responsible le parent of small children my choice is their safety first.
Of course, your choice will make sense for you and don't worry about justifying it to others, its your life and.....please keep living it the way you have....we are all envious of your great trip reports!
I had a 3rd gen pickup ('89 ex cab Toyota) before I bought the T100. From a size perspective I was much more comfortable driving and camping in it. For hauling things, the T100s bed is awesome. It I didn't have so many kids I would have kept the '89 and honestly still kick myself for selling it. It was perfect for hauling 2 kids in the 5-10 range.
Seat latch systems have recently been proven to be less safe in some vehicles. Quick google search came up with this:
http://www.squintmom.com/evidence-b...d-policy-on-latch-use-for-securing-car-seats/ I have no clue if this web page is usually reliable, but I have heard these facts for years. The biggest issue with people are car seats is that they do not install them correctly. #1 that I have seen is that they are not tightened enough for the seat to not move. If this is done then I would definitely use the seatbelt system.
I am glad that your friend survived, accidents are horrible and I hope that no one has to go through what my family as well as others have had to go through with loss of lives. To be honest in every accident situation nothing is optimal. In worst case a complete flip and crushed cab a rear access door or another set of doors does you no more good than not having them. Think about how many vehicles with 3rd row seats are not accessible, or even vans with 4 rows. Those are all worst case and again I really hope no one has to ever deal with something such as that.
I a glad that your friend not only survived but also had the $ to be able to purchase a vehicle that cost at a minimum 2x what his previous vehicle cost (Possibly 3 or 4x). For many of us we just cannot afford to do that. As I stated above for many people the Tundra DC would be a perfect fit, but for someone budget minded and also someone who thinks it is ridiculous that people have to have a mini van or huge vehicle with their first child, I think that the T100 can be used for many years to come. Although the first year or so would be rough with the rear facing seat. It would work in a inch but as a DD with no other car it would not be optimal. After they are forward facing it wouldnt be too bad. Would I take all 6 of my family on a 12 hour trip up the east coast in the T100? NO, I would take our family car a 3rd gen 4runner w/ 3rd row seat added. Would I take them on a 3 hour trip across the state? YES, and I have a few times when we needed the truck bed and everyone needed to go.
Everyone is different and we are all entitled to our own opinions, I personally as a family man with a limited budget would say that a T100 is a better vehicle than a Tundra for a build. I will stick with my ~$4K truck and a few thousand in PM and mods and have no car payment, while hoping it makes it to 400K like countless other T100s I saw FS when I was looking. (I still have yet to see a Tundra with over 400K?) However if your ideas of cross country trips then I would go with something different. I kinda figured this wasn't going to be their only family vehicle??
Then again I have 4 kids to pay for and college to think about in the future so many of my thoughts end up from a budgeting perspective, not always bells and whistles, etc.
You know that you can get a DC Tundra that seats six. I actually passed up on many that held six before I found mine.
I actually clarified that statement 2 posts up:
I did not qualify my statement close enough about # of people. T100 can hold kids in the front seat as there is no front passenger airbag. The Tundra AC has a switch to turn off the front bag for this reason. However the DC does not have a switch to turn off the airbag. Because of this I avoided the Tundra DC, even though I think from a comfort standpoint it could have been a good fit for my family, if they were not $$.
I certainly did not plan on hijacking this thread this way as I love the build. But I think that its helpful to have two sides to a story. Especially from a real world example of someone in the middle class who hates debt. :26_7_2: and is extremely cheap... I mean thrifty.