Set the front to 2" lift... not only will you prevent the destruction of CV boots, but you will actually have some down travel in the front suspension. Another benefit is that the ball joints will be a lot happier at 2" lift, and since it's a daily driver, you will have a ton less bump steer because the tie rod angles are a lot closer to being horizontal rather than / \ .
I did a 2" front, 1" rear lift on my FJ... couldn't be happier.
Once the front is dialed in, do whatever it takes to get the rear to sit where it looks good to you.
Good luck and keep us posted.
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