For what its worth researching a Lokka has me very interested except for the snow aspect. However, after talking with a few people they say its not bad in the snow. But it has to be snow so no using 4wd in the slush/rain sleet or you run into issues. The guy I spoke with is Nixx on thenewx and this is what he messaged me:
"It really makes no difference in 2WD. No difference 2WD on dry pavement, mud or snow. 2WD = no difference.
4WD gets weird in mixed wet pavement/patchy snow conditions. It's... unpleasant. It tends to pick a direction when it hooks up on pavement and pull to that side. Not uncontrollably, but unsettling. These are conditions like you mentioned, you don't really need 4WD, but some like to use it anyway. Well, the Lokka kinda makes the choice for you. Once it's all snow, flip it on, no problems.
Installation isn't bad. Toughest part is the Thrust Washers (shims). I'm not sure what others have been doing, I had to make my own. It's definitely a fair amount of work but there isn't anything really tricky about any of it. Feel free to hit me up with any questions as you're getting ready or if you get stuck in the process."
Just food for thought. I'm in the same camp as you and would totally go Lokka if I knew how it drove in mixed snow and ice, packed powder and slush. But that price tag is nice. Its kinda this or an ARB i guess from the sounds of it. Wish someone built titanium spider gears.