The question is always - how, when, where, what. IFS is far more liveable on the street, sometimes rocks and running open desert. Solid axle is far better in mud, snow, and sometimes rocks. So when you ask "what should I do" the same question is asked of you. What do you do? IFS is more expensive to make bulletproof, however, when it comes to long distances and or long distances over rough roads - I'll take IFS over solid axle every time.
As for durability, I think you forgot about the human element. I have an 1985 Suburban and a 2004 Denali - when I need to get to California and will be driving long distances.... I'll take the Denali every single time. It's so much more comfortable and comfort equals safe driving. That said, if time isn't really an issue but vacation is.... I like the trips and the often stops to see what's around me - so I don't care so much about solid axles riding harsher or following the ruts in the road.
Notice something, though, I haven't mentioned durability. The Denali has 183,000 miles, the Suburban 300,000 miles, my H3 has 150,000 miles (and I've had countless other 4x4s)... cost over the long haul is about the same. The only part of the Denali that has been replaced in 183,000 miles is the idler arm (about 30 bucks). The Suburban has all brand new bushings and new springs - on top of that, I had to reweld the frame where the shock mounted. I don't think those fixes were really atypical for the breed (I've owned a bunch).... My H3 - had a steering rack replaced at 80,000 miles but otherwise has its factory stuff still on it. With that said, I wheeled it pretty hard and ended up replacing a t-case and having to rebuild the front axle. While that could be kind of damning for IFS, I don't think, given the how-it-happened, that I wouldn't have been doing exactly the same repairs if it were a solid, dana 44 front axle...
now my advice from your limited post - stick with the IFS, your back, wife, and wallet will love it. If you really feel the need to drop $5,000 on a front axle then another $5,000 having it installed - spend the 10k on a side-by-side.