It's a fair point, and it's good that you mention the difference... but if you really prioritize danger and safety, then it becomes a slippery slope to total obsession. Might as well just stay home.
The bulk of my "overlanding" was a few thousand days spent in the boonies (ideally miles from another human)... before cell phones or any of this other stuff. No one knew where I was or what my schedule might be, and they were not expecting a call. If I got into a situation that I couldn't get out of, then the ravens and vultures would have picked my carcass clean long before anyone missed me.
"We all got it comin, kid".
Now I have a cell phone. I figure that is plenty of safety to counteract my old age, even though I often don't have a signal in the places I go. We all have to balance safety with our experience of life and the "cost" ($, time, mental energy)... and that goes for our loved ones as well.