So I finally took my truck into Denver Spring and had a leaf added to the rear spring pack (about $700). The RAM 2500 does not have an overload spring. It rides about the same empty, but is now an inch higher in the rear (actually 2" since the Sulastic Shackle added an inch). Truck sits perfectly level with the camper on and the ride is greatly improved. We left the airbags in and he suggest running it anywhere from 15-30 psi. As an aside, they do not like airbags since MagChloride was introduced, eats away the O-rings.
I am going to agree with the people who say this was the best suspension improvement I've made. I have a wet payload of 3500# on a truck with a 2100# payload rating.
I am at 39k miles and am now replacing the shocks. Fronts are done, I went with Fox 2.0 Factory Performance w/ reservoirs and adjusters (1-8). Rears will be the 2.5 version of the same shock.