RMP&O
Expedition Leader
The basics I was thinking of are a small lift (2"-3"), sliders, a camper top, rack, tires. I've been reading on here about all the different types of lifts and dang, I had no Idea.
What would yall recommend?
Set the truck up for how you want, ie all the things you listed. Do this first and suspension last. You may have a bit of time running around with the truck heavy before suspension gets done, ie yu add this one month, few months later you add that. If that is the case which is what I reccomend you may need to do something like add a leaf just to handle the weight for the time being. Yet, this is cheap and easy to do.
Once you have the vehicle all set up for how you like and your uses then do suspension. Weigh the truck, get a total weight with it loaded and full of fuel, water, ect. Get a front axle and rear axle weight. Then go shopping for suspension. My advice is to buy the best suspension you can afford. Ideally one that is tuneable. Off the shelf kits are just that and you truely do get what you pay for. Most of the high end companies that make suspension for a Tacoma can set the valving and coil rates of your front. Custom leaf springs can be made to your needs and specs for the rear by companies like Deaver and Alcan. Anything else is cookie cutter and may not be ideal for you and your uses since it is manufactured for a wide range of people and their uses.
If you end up real heavy in the rear which you likely will with a camper (FWC) and other stuff plus gear for living out of the truck for months on end. Well, I suggest you looking into quality air bags. Doesn't sound like you need flex or off-road powers so air bags are really nice for heavy loads and light off-roading. They are tuneable on the fly depending on the load you carry which may vary a fair amount trip to trip.
my 2 cents